Today, I had one of those moments when you notice how much the world is changing and how our needs are evolving. I just returned to town and saw an elderly man, very frail and thin, taking small steps with the help of his caregivers. They were going out for a short walk, similar to the ones my mom takes, especially now that she’s dealing with swelling in her foot from phlebitis.
This sight reminded me of how dependent we are on our own resources and how the public health system often falls short for those over 75. It’s not about complaining, but it’s clear that some issues are treated with less urgency. My mom’s phlebitis, which could lead to serious complications, won’t be examined until next month due to a lack of availability in the public system. How many of us feel powerless in front of such a system? Should be already be working on changing future? And why isn’t anyone trying to do anything about it? In 20 years, I’ll be facing similar issues, and it worries me that the age group considered “high-risk” for the public health system might shift from 75-85 to 65-75.
Facing Changing Future
There’s no doubt that something needs to switch in our society. I spoke with an ex-colleague who shared how family networks in Africa are strong, with elders being cared for by family members or the community. In contrast, our focus tends to be on our jobs, travels, and personal lives. There’s little recognition or support for caring for elderly family members here.
Dealing with dementia and Alzheimer’s is challenging, and if the government provided a fair salary for caregivers, many would take that opportunity. Personally, if I didn’t have to juggle work and travel (since I live in a different country from my mom), I would spend more time with her and get some external help. What I see around me often feels like an imbalance: younger people choosing to focus on their own lives while leaving elderly care to others.
Ideally, there should be a way to balance quality time with our parents and grandparents without sacrificing our own lives completely. In our advanced society, it shouldn’t be so difficult to avoid these hard choices. We need a system that supports both caregivers and those in need of care more effectively.
In advanced countries like the US, Alzheimer’s and dementia care often involve specialized memory care facilities that offer tailored support and safety features. Caregivers benefit from various support programs, including respite care and training, to help manage their responsibilities. Additionally, early diagnosis and intervention are emphasized to address the disease proactively, while ongoing research and innovative therapies aim to improve treatment and quality of life.
In the US, efforts go beyond just diagnosing and treating dementia; they focus on enhancing overall well-being for those affected and their families. Doctors and caregivers work to improve quality of life by providing not only medical treatment but also support systems, personalized care plans, and resources aimed at making the final years as fulfilling and comfortable as possible. This holistic approach underscores the commitment to ensuring that individuals with dementia can live their remaining years with dignity and support.
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